I don't know if you paid any attention to my blog intro when you entered my page. And if you didn't, it's fine, let me go ahead and give you the disclaimer. ".....everyday is NOT a good day and that's okay!" But....make no mistake, I'm going to make the best of EVERYDAY. I may complain, I may cry, my faith my waiver, still....all in in all, life continues.
Today in fact IS NOT a good day. It's super stressful and I'm basically struggling my way through it. I will, without a doubt make it.. Just probably not void of someone receiving an eyeroll or silence or maybe even an earful of what I've been holding. - Mind yall business though. -lol
Alright! Let's get into today's relatable moment.
As of late, normalcy isn't normal. It's always a need to "normalize" something that SHOULD BE already normal. Crazy right? Like normalizing compassion....or normalizing common courtesy (yes, please and thank you)....How are those things NOT normal? Imma tell you why. We are basically living SIMON SAYS era. No one does ANYTHING until SIMON says it. I mean... Who's SIMON anyway? He's definitely NOT the boss of me!
Anywho...while we're normalizing things, I vote we normalize ENFORCING OUR BOUNDARIES. People LOVE to push us beyond our boundaries. They LOVE pushing their own selfish agendas and have zero cares that THEIR agendas or expectations do not align with OUR boundaries. It's in those moments that we should be taking that power BACK and saying, I can't stop you from doing the things that you do or saying the things that you feel AS LONG AS those things aren't directly affecting me.
ENFORCE YOUR BOUNDARIES so much so people will think twice before asking you to reconsider because you have mastered protecting your peace to the point of perfection. It's not selfish. It's allowing yourself to choose YOU unapologetically because you deserve it.
That's all.
....Extend some Grace. Share some LOVE. And A.C.E. (Affirm, Change and Elevate) 2024!
`She Stingss
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